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Four Questions to Ask Yourself Regarding Your Estate Plan

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Questions to ask yourself to prepare for your meeting with your attorney

You do not have to have a ton of assets to need an Estate Plan. You do need an attorney specializing in this area of law to properly put together any type of plan. An Estate Plan is more than big assets. It is the plan that comes into play when you can no longer convey your wishes on various issues. After you pick an attorney to help put together your documents, ask yourself these four questions. Bring the answers to the meeting so the attorney can get an idea of the type of Estate Plan needed to fit your needs.

1. What are your Assets? Make a list of everything you own. Your home or apartment contents, car, and various other items can be addressed in an Estate Plan. Cars. Jewelry. Furniture. Family photos. Not all assets have a monetary value. Sentimental assets have been known cause just as many problems [if not MORE] as large sums of cash. This list will help your attorney put together a plan to fit your needs.

2. Who Gets What? Now that you have your list – who to do you want to have these assets? Name a person you want to carry out your wishes when it comes to distributing these assets. These are the big decisions that no one can make for you.

3. What are you Healthcare Wishes? Accidents happen and they do not give warnings. That’s why they are called accidents. This is especially important in the case of an illness that robs you of your ability to make decisions. Choose a trusted friend or family member to assign as the healthcare power of attorney. Then talk to this individual to make sure they are willing to accept this responsibility and will follow your wishes.

4. What Type of Funeral? This is a morbid thought and no one likes to think about a day when someone will be planning their funeral. Write what you would like, if you want a funeral and make it part of your Estate Plan. Listing out your wishes will make this easier for love ones during a difficult time.

These questions are just a start. Your attorney will probably have more questions to make sure all the potential issues are addressed in your plan. Follow up on your attorney’s advice. Sign the documents, change the asset titles if necessary and let your family know where your documents can be located. Your family will appreciate having these documents and it will help them deal with their grief.

How to Include Your Digital Assets in Your Estate Plan

digital assetTechnology has created new jobs, a new industry, and a new step in estate planning. The days of just gathering just paper documents folder so your love ones can find it when necessary are over. There is one more step – digital assets. Digital assets are commonplace and need to be considered when putting together an estate plan. To make sure your estate plan is complete, here are some steps to follow when gathering the information for your estate plan to make sure the digital assets are included.

Make A List

The most common documents are thought of first when gathering the information for an estate plan. Deeds to property, list of jewelry, the contents of a home are a few. When you gather all your assets together your online accounts need to be included so the executor can have access. Not sure what digital assets are? They are defined as follows:

Digital property (or digital assets) can be understood as any information about you or created by you that exists in digital form, either online or on an electronic storage device, including the information necessary to access the digital asset.

These can be family photos stored on a computer hard drive to the login information for an online financial account. To be safe, if you want to make sure anything online is passed on, resolved, or shut down after you pass, include it on this list. Whether it has monetary or sentimental value – it should be included.

Know What to Include- Examples of Personal and Monetary Digital Property

Understanding what to include in your digital list can be daunting. Consider the following when you sit down to make your digital asset list. Accounts that are used to manage money and may hold money or credits, like PayPal, bank accounts, loyalty rewards programs, and any accounts with credit balances in your favor are the digital assets that come to mind first because of the monetary value. But your digital assets can be a much more intensive list when you stop and considering everything you do on your computer.

Computer hardware, external hard drives or flash drives, tablets, smartphones, digital music players, e-readers, digital cameras, and other digital devices need to be on your list. These items may contain crucial information that may need attention in the processing of your estate. These may also have personal information you want someone to have for has for sentimental reasons. In addition, any of these have monetary value if they generate revenue. Any information or data that is stored electronically, whether stored online, in the cloud, should make the list. This includes art, photos, music, eBooks, intellectual property, websites or blogs that generate revenue for you. Domain names, including copyrighted materials, trademarks, and any code you may have written and own are other examples of digital assets that need to be considered in the estate planning process.

Any online accounts, such as email and communications accounts, social media accounts, shopping accounts, photo and video sharing accounts, video gaming accounts, online storage accounts, and websites and blogs that you may manage. If you want these accounts shared or shut down in your estate, they need to be included.

Hire An Attorney

Lastly, I always recommend hiring an attorney when putting together an estate plan and with digital assets this is even more important. Technology is changing as a fast pace with increasingly companies using cloud based storage. In addition, intellectual property is a relatively new field. Only an attorney in the estate planning field will have the up-to-date knowledge to put your estate plan together properly and save your family time and money.

The End of the Year is the Perfect Time to Update Your Asset Inventory

When someone passes away, finding all the accounts, insurance policies, and necessary information to close an entire estate can be a monumental search. When I do an Estate Package for a client I put together a binder. This binder contains all the documents of the Estate Plan for convenience, safe keeping, and future review. Yearly review of your Estate Plan and Asset Inventory is a responsible habit to start and the end of the year is a great time year to implement this practice. Many people create an inventory when they go through the process of initially planning their estate and never touch it again. One easy way to annually update your inventory is to collect the statements you get in the mail at the end of the year for tax purposes. Place them all in a folder as they come in the mail and cross reference this against your inventory. That way you are getting a jump on your taxes AND updating your binder with the most current information on your assets. 
Also, there are significant life events that can trigger changes to the asset inventory. Examples of these are:


If you have gotten a divorce since the drafting of the estate plan and asset inventory, they will need to be changes. In addition, if an heir has gotten divorced this may change how you your assets will be distributed.


If you have gotten married, there may be additional assets that need to be added to your inventory. The information needs to be gathered and put on this list in your estate binder.

Sold or Purchased New Assets.

Did you cash in an insurance policy or purchase a new piece of land? These changes need to be added to your asset inventory to bring it current.
An asset inventory will only provide a clear “road map” for your heirs after you are gone if it is reviewed regularly. An experienced estate planning attorney can help you create an inventory of your assets and make a plan for asset preservation and distribution. If you are in the Daytona Beach, Florida area, call me for a free consultation regarding your Estate Planning needs.


April 16th is National Healthcare Decisions Day!

Why do you need to take care of your Healthcare Surrogate Designations?

We all plan on living long, happy lives, but we should always be prepared for when unexpected problems arise. When you designate a healthcare surrogate, you are preparing yourself and your loved ones for potentially stressful situations. You are also ensuring that your healthcare decisions are in the hands of someone your trust.  You are making your own difficult decisions.

In the event you reach the point that you are not able to handle your own medical decisions because of injury, illness or your advanced age, having the appropriate legal paperwork in place are essential parts of your lifeline. If you don’t want to write down your wishes in regards to your medical care, you want to ensure you have someone named to oversee your medical care.

If you don’t have a healthcare surrogate designation in place, your important life-changing events could be left up to estranged relatives, judges or doctors who know nothing or very little about your preferences. To ensure your wishes are followed, you should complete two critical healthcare documents in Florida.

You need to have a designation of healthcare surrogate completed. The second form you complete should be a living will, which determines what kind of medical treatment you would or would not like to receive in Florida. When naming your healthcare surrogate, you can name any person you trust, most people choose a spouse, parent, adult child or close friend to handle the job. Florida law declares that the person you name as your surrogate cannot witness the document.

If you have not named a healthcare surrogate, you should schedule an appointment with a Florida estate attorney, who can guide you through the process and make other suggestions regarding making preparations for the futures of you and your family.

About Heidi S. Webb, Attorney at Law: Heidi Webb is an Estate Planning and small business attorney located in Daytona Beach, Florida. See what clients are saying about Heidi, follow her on Facebook, and connect with her on Google+ or LinkedIn


Ask Heidi: What is a Medicaid Spend-down?

A Medicaid Spend-Down is a process that allows you to legally spend down your assets in such a way so that you can legitimately qualify for Medicaid.

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People are living much longer than they did in previous generations.  As a result of this, we are seeing a sharp increase in people who are needing home nursing care as well as long term care.  Many families have unfortunately had to take on the financial burden of these services which can cost well north of $5,000 a month.  This additional burden has ruined families not only financially, but also emotionally.  But many can breathe a sigh of relief because help is available from the government in the form of Medicaid.

Medicaid is a government program that was created to help struggling and low income families with healthcare costs [check out last week’s blog for more on Medicaid].  It is important to understand that in order to qualify for Medicaid you must meet specific income requirements and have limited assets.  If you exceed these limits but still need to have access to Medicaid an attorney may be able to help you find ways, such as a spend-down, to legitimately qualify by reducing your available income and assets.

It is very important to seek the advice of an attorney trained in Estate Planning or Elder Law to help you navigate the process of a Medicaid Spend-Down. It must be done in accordance with the laws and guidelines currently in place of YOUR State or the consequences could have a much greater financial impact.


Divorce Changes Your Will

Do I Need These? The Living Will, Healthcare Directive and DNR Order

If I had to pick the most frequently asked question in my Estate Planning practice this would be it.  Do I Need a Living Will, Healthcare Directive and DNR Order?  The answer:  Yes. No. Maybe So.  I know, not helpful.  Like many things there’s more to it.  For starters, many people assume they are all the same document, but they are very different.   With that in mind I decided to write this blog to look at each one separately and discuss when or why you may want each.

Living Will

A Living Will, also known as an Advanced Directive, is a legal document that allows you to clearly indicate your wishes for end-of-life medical care in the event you become incapacitated and there is no hope of meaningful quality of life even if you survive. The Living Will applies only if you can no longer state your wishes.  I often refer to this as the “there is no hope, pull the plug” document and I really believe every adult should have one. 

People of any age and even those in good health NEED to have a living will done and make sure it is easily accessible in the event of a medical emergency or accident.  Once completed make sure your loved ones know your wishes and give your primary physician and local hospital a copy to keep in your medical file so your wishes can indeed be carried out.  Not convinced? Take a moment and read about Terry Schiavo

Healthcare Directive

A Healthcare Directive, also called Healthcare Surrogate or Power of Attorney,  is a legal document in which you name a person to act as an agent for you and make your medical decisions in the event you are unable to do so yourself.   It also allows this person to communicate with healthcare providers and receive medical records that would otherwise be precluded under HIPAA regulations.

A Healthcare Directive can be as simple or as complicated as you want it to be in regards to your care. It can include your input on life support equipment, blood transfusions, long-term care facilities and so forth or a more generalized power over all things healthcare.   A healthcare directive is beneficial to anyone at any age because medical emergencies can occur at any time. I strongly encourage this document be included in any Estate Planning you do.


A DNR is a Do-Not-Resuscitate order. Written by a medical doctor, it instructs any other healthcare providers to not perform CPR (cardiopulmonary resuscitation) or any other extraordinary lifesaving measures in the event a patient stops breathing or if a patient’s heart stops beating.  A DNR is attached predominately to a patient’s file and if you are a caregiver it is something you would want to make all providers aware of as, of course, the medical providers’ inclination is to save lives at any cost.

When would this be needed?  In general, most people don’t require this document if they are in good overall health.  If someone suffers from terminal illness or is elderly, a DNR may be appropriate.  As an example, an elderly gentleman who resides in a nursing home and who is suffering from dementia may have his life sustained by CPR, but the lifesaving act itself can break bones or cause additional problems that result in an even worse quality of life.


Ultimately, you need to decide which document or documents you want to have in place and then there’s the hard part…. act on it 🙂 .  If you just aren’t sure and want to talk through it all, give me a call and we can sit down (free of charge) and I can go over the finer points.  In the meanwhile, remember, if a medical emergency ever arises your loved ones will already be under enough stress without having to make these major life decisions for you, it truly is a gift for you to make your wishes clear by having these documents taken care of now.

P.S.  While having this conversation is always a good time to consider things like organ donation, if you haven’t already!

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About Heidi S. Webb, Attorney at Law: Heidi Webb is an estate planning and small business attorney located in Daytona Beach, Florida. See what clients are saying about Heidi, follow her on Facebook, and connect with her on Google+ or LinkedIn.

HIS HERS OURS: Estate Planning for the Blended Family

“Here’s the story of a lovely ladybrady bunch
who was bringing up three very lovely girls
all of them had hair of gold, like their mother.
the youngest one in curls.

Here’s the story of a man named Brady
Who was busy with three boys of his own.
They were four men living all together
yet they were all alone

Till the one day when the lady met this fellow.
And they knew that it was much more than a hunch,
That this group must somehow form a family,
That’s the way we all became the Brady bunch.”

~~credits to Sherwood Schwartz creator of the Brady Bunch and lyricist

I’m sure I’m dating myself with that one, but it just seemed an appropriate opening.  I’m always saying how Estate Planning is very important, regardless of your age or the size of your family.  Let me follow that up by saying Estate Planning is extremely important when you have a blended family.  Statistics show that about 15 percent of the U.S. population has been married more than once. Blended families are commonplace in today’s world. But from a legal standpoint they bring a whole slew of issues that really are best addressed while you are alive, rather than fought over after you are gone.

What makes a blended family different? At least one and often both adults enter into the marriage with assets from previous marriages.  When you enter into a second marriage, often both parties have children from previous relationships. Then, the couple sometimes has children together. While you want to make certain your spouse is properly cared for in the event of your death, you want to ensure that your minor children are cared for as well, and you may have concerns as to whom will manage your kids’ money if you’re gone or will your adult children get an inheritance or not?  Do you want to provide for your step-children whom you’ve helped raise for most of their lives?  A lot of these things won’t happen or will happen in a way that may surprise you if left to Florida Intestacy Laws.  According to research, the biggest mistake made when making a Will with a blended family is that people fail to be specific when leaving property to “children”.

Creating the Right Plan.  It’s a must.

Making sure your assets will get distributed so that everyone is cared for can be a challenging situation. You need to indicate what goes to whom as leaving it up to the family to divide things and sort things out is not a responsible decision. Your spouse and children should not have to work out the situation on their own. Instead, you need to ask for direction so you can derive the right plan for your needs.

Effective Estate Planning for a blended family can be tricky.  An experienced and knowledgeable attorney in your corner can help you sort through your goals and make the best possible plan for your family.

About Heidi S. Webb, Attorney at Law: Heidi Webb is an Estate Planning and small business attorney located in Daytona Beach, Florida. See what clients are saying about Heidi, follow her on Facebook, and connect with her on Google+ or LinkedIn

13 of the Weirdest Will Requests in Estate Planning History, By Heidi S Webb: Attorney at Law, Daytona Beach

Yep. No joke. Read on for more weird will requests.

Yep. No joke. Read on for more weird will requests…

People are weird. People’s possessions are weird. What people do with their possessions is weird. Estate planning isn’t so weird. In fact, it’s a regular “adult” thing to do, and it’s pretty crucial if not slightly necessary for the wellbeing and comfort of your family and loved ones.

When you’re an estate planning attorney, even in notorious Daytona Beach, Florida, it’s not very often that you come across weird wills or quirky (or downright disturbing and perplexing estate plans), but after hearing a few “doozies” on the topic of famous weird will requests, I’ve compiled some that might give you a laugh, a shock––or just make you scratch your head a little. 

Here are 13 of the weirdest last will and testament requests in the history of estate planning:

  1. The guy that wanted his skin turned into drums and played to the tune of “Yankee Doodle” once a year.

When S. Sanborn (an American hat maker) died in 1871, he left his body to science, bequeathing it to a guy named Oliver Wendell Holmes, Sr., (a professor of anatomy at Harvard Medical School). Sanborn’s will stipulated that two drums were to be made out of Sanborn’s skin and given to a friend. There was another condition: every June 17 at dawn his friend was instructed to drum out the tune “Yankee Doodle” at Bunker Hill in order to commemorate the anniversary of the famous Revolutionary War battle. The rest of his body was “to be composted for a fertilizer to contribute to the growth of an American elm, to be planted in some rural thoroughfare.” How cute.


  1. William Shakespeare lovingly giving his wife his “second best” mattress.

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When Will Shakespeare died in 1616, he left something of question in his last will and testament: He bequeathed his “second best bed” to his wife, Anne Hathaway. Historians have speculated about the act; however, leaving a bed to someone in those days wasn’t all that weird (a quality bed with no fleas or pests was highly prized)––but why she got his “second best” one is still a mystery.


  1. The rich dude that believed in reincarnation, so he kept paying his large group of staff members to keep up his mansion for almost 60 years after his death… Can you imagine the house parties the servants must have thrown?

John Bowman (1816-1891) believed in reincarnation so much, it drove him to leave a trust of $50,000 for his afterlife along with his wife and daughters. The trust paid to maintain his mansion and for the servants to serve dinner each night on the off chance that the family were hungry when they came back from beyond the grave. This continued until 1950 when the trust ran dry.


4.  The lady that left a running sum of over 14 million to her dogs.

Each pup was tattooed to prove their membership in the original 150. The pets lived out their final days at a sprawling ranch in Florida.

Each pup was tattooed to prove their linage. The pets lived out their final days at a sprawling ranch in Florida.

Eleanor E. Ritchey, heiress to the Quaker State Refining Corporation, passed on her $4.5 million fortune to her 150 dogs when she died in Florida in 1968. The will was contested, and in 1973 the dogs received $9 million (must have had a decent attorney). By the time the estate was finally settled, its value had jumped to $14 million but only 73 of the dogs were still alive. When discussing the female canines left in the will, sources say the term “rich b****” comes to mind. When the last of the family dogs died in 1984, the remainder of the estate went to the Auburn University Research Foundation for research into animal diseases.


  1. Grace Kelly’s dad snubbing members of the male persuasion from his final will and testament.

Grace Kelly‘s father, John B Kelly, had a somewhat notable request in his will. He left his vast fortune to his daughters ONLY, purposely leaving his son-in-laws out. He stated, “I don’t want to give the impression that I am against [them]. If they are the right type, they will provide for themselves and their families, and what I am able to give my daughters will help pay the dress shop bills which, if they continue as they started out under the able tutelage of their mother, will be quite considerable.”


  1. Janis Joplin’s freaking-awesome “Party Clause” – added to her will two days before her death. Now that’s timely estate planning for you…
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If only we all had friends like Janis…

Another notorious celebrity will tidbit for you: Known for her heavy drinking and drug use, Janis Joplin died of an overdose on October 4, 1970. Janis made changes to her will just two days before her death. She set aside $2,500 to pay for a posthumous all-night party for 200 guests at her favorite pub in San Anselmo, California, “so my friends can get blasted after I’m gone.” The bulk of her estate reportedly went to her parents.


  1. Houdini’s will requests discussions with his wife from beyond the grave, in the afterlife.
I wonder if he'll be wearing that in the afterlife...

I wonder if he’ll be wearing that in the afterlife…

Harry Houdini’s will insisted his wife conduct a seance each year so he could see and speak to her, and he included a special code so that she’d know it was his spirit…


8.  The Star Trek star’s will that states his ashes go galactic when he’s goners.

Star Trek creator Gene Roddenberry demanded his ashes be buried in space. Cool, makes sense I s’pose.


9.  The estate planning move involving a requested burial in a Pringles can. Yes, a Pringles can.

You'll never look at a can of Pringles the same way again

You’ll never look at a can of Pringles the same way again

Pringles founder Fred Baur’s last will and testament requested he be cremated and buried in a Pringles can. Enough said. If you’re interested in the topic, here’s a TIME article that goes a little deeper into the matter. 


10.   Another rich lady with a dog, but this one’s not so heartwarming. 

Businesswoman Leona Helmsley left her family out of the will, and her 12-million dollar fortune went to her Maltese.


11.  And now for the sweetest estate planning last will and testament request ever made, ever:

Before passing away from pancreatic cancer in 1974, comedian Jack Benny left a large sum of money in his will to the local florist, with the promise that one long-stemmed red rose be delivered to his wife of 47 years, Mary, everyday for the rest of her life. 

"What can I say? I'm a sweetheart..."

“What can I say? I’m a sweetheart…”


12.  The guy who wanted to be embalmed and stuffed with hay so he could sit and stare at you forevermore.

You can make some pretty outlandish requests in your will, but this one’s out there: Lawyer, philosopher and social reformer, Jeremy Bentham (1748-1832) – as per his will’s instructions – was embalmed, stuffed with hay, dressed, and placed in a chair. His body is displayed at University College London in a glass case.


13. Author leaves his literal birth date to a friend who had that dreaded “Christmas Birthday” curse. Nice guy!



Robert Louis Stevenson, author of Treasure Island, decided not to leave money or property to loved ones, but something far more personal: His birthday. He gave his birthday to his friend Annie H. Ide, whose birthday fell on Christmas day and who admitted to Stevenson that she felt cheated out of a “real birthday” – He left her his birthday of November 13th. 

And there you have it, the weirdest will requests in estate planning history. Which one shocked you the most, let us know on Facebook. 


About HeidHeidi Webb Daytona Beach Attorneyi S. Webb, Attorney at Law: Heidi Webb is a Daytona Beach estate planning and small business attorney serving the areas of Daytona, Ormond Beach, Port Orange, and beyond with wills, trusts, medicaid planning, small business law, and more. For estate planning and small business tips, follow Heidi S. Webb Attorney at Law on Facebook, LinkedIn, or Google+. 

Daytona Beach Attorney Heidi S. Webb: 10 Things You May Not Know About Me

I thought I’d take a breather from my attorney posts about elder law, estate planning and small business advice of a legal nature to share some facts about me that you (and likely many of my friends and colleagues) may not know. Here are 10 facts about me that may surprise you:

You're about  to learn a whole lot more about Heidi S. Webb: attorney, chef, and anti diet coke crusader.

Welcome to the Dark Side – You’re about to learn a whole lot more about Heidi S. Webb: attorney, chef, and anti diet coke crusader.

I hate eggplant.

I’ll eat (and even cook) pretty much anything. But eggplant is perhaps the one and only thing on my list of “no freaking way am I going to eat that!” If you’re cooking up eggplant parm for dinner, kindly leave me off the guest list! For other, more palatable ideas, check out my food blog. 

 I am strictly anti-Diet Coke.

That stuff is the sweat of evil demons that have come to steal your soul (or at least your health, well-being and vitality), with an addictive, flowing nectar made from nasty, noxious chemicals. Diet Coke = Bubble Trouble. Please do your research and kick the can if you haven’t already. As of the date of this post, I’m officially nearly 2 months clean of my dirty habit drinking diet soda. I now have a loving relationship with my soda stream and bubbly water. Here’s to better health!

My favorite food is adventurous gastro-pub type food – I’ll try anything, even if it seems weird!

On my other blog I’ve listed my favorite restaurants in Daytona and Ormond Beach, but I’ll go anywhere for that adventurous gastro-pub style food. Lucky for me it’s oh so in right now. Score!

I make what could possibly be the best risotto ever.

You know that show with the angry red-faced guy, Gordon Ramsey of Hell’s Kitchen? Well I’ve watched him go postal on many a contestant over the shoddy excuses for risotto that they’ve turned out in the studio kitchen. I believe, without a doubt, that I could singlehandedly bring a smile to that dude’s face with my utterly exceptional risotto. Yes, it’s that good. And here is the master himself…

Meme from

Meme from

I applied for the television show The Amazing Race 2 years ago, along with my best friend.

Needless to say I didn’t end up traveling the world for a bunch of money and notoriety, but I love my jobs, my family, and my life working and living around beautiful Daytona Beach, FL. Gotta love the Sunshine State.

I used to have my CDL and drove an 18 Wheeler cross country with my husband when I first got married [AFTER I graduated from Law School]. 

When David & I first got married we moved –jobless– to New Mexico.  An opportunity came up to go to Green Bay WI and be trained to drive tractor trailers.  So, young & dumb [but not without higher degrees] we headed off.  It was an adventure.  No regrets but after driving all over the US we happily retired and settled into our careers.

 I like all types of music – even Eminem!

I was a rocker in my younger years. I’m blessed with very responsible, mature kids – and I’m not saying that I wasn’t because I was in my own “Heidi” way; however, I rocked out on the regular to some good old classic rock when I was in my teens and twenties.  Now, I’m into all kinds of music, from top 20 hits to throwbacks from the old-school days. Not to be that guy (or, gal, should I say) with the clichés, but I have very “eclectic” taste.

I believe drinking White Zin is a cardinal sin (it’s almost worse than Diet Coke)!

Friends don't let friends drink White Zin. In fact,  wouldn't wish a glass of it on my worst enemy.

Friends don’t let friends drink White Zin. In fact, wouldn’t wish a glass of it on my worst enemy.

No offense to the White Zin drinkers out there, but: we probably won’t be bonding over a glass of Arbor Mist anytime soon… 

I make a mean Mojito – and I have over 20 recipes for them.

I never buy premixed drinks (unless it’s a certain infused simple syrup) – when someone wants a Mojito at Chez Webb, I take a trip to the herb garden, get down and dirty with my muddler and a short lifetime later I offer my friends or guests the best dang Mojito their taste buds have ever had the pleasure of basking in. I do make my own drink mix (yes, I have a lot of ventures, or “passions” should I say) – you can check it out at  

My favorite drink at the moment is a Not So Simple Aperol Spritz. 

I like to relax with a pristine craft cocktail. I’ve made so many mojitos for people, that I’m kind of spent on that for now. However, at the moment my favorite treat is Aperol, an Italian aperitif mixed together with orange Not So Simple Syrup & Brut Champagne. Cheers!

heidiwebb picThanks so much for reading. I’m sure you’re beyond enthralled and fascinated with my personal “fact list,” lol – and now’s your chance to print it out, gold-leaf it, bedazzle and frame it, and keep it forever. Stay tuned for more posts of a more legal nature: I try to make estate planning and small business law as exciting as I can, and I think I do a pretty decent job (if I do say so myself). Here’s to being proud and accepting of who we are and who we used to be – unless of course we’re involving Diet Coke or White Zin in the mix, then you should be ashamed of yourself and banished to a dark corner somewhere!

Follow Daytona Beach Attorney Heidi Webb on Facebook, LinkedIn, or Google+ to keep up with her entertaining posts about legal news and advice on the topics of elder law, estate planning, and small business law. Oh, and there might be a quirky blog in there once in a while too. 

About Heidi S. Webb, Attorney at Law: Heidi is an estate planning and small business lawyer located in the Daytona Beach area. She assists clients in Daytona, Ormond, Port Orange, and surrounding areas with a variety of matters, including wills and trusts, probate, Medicaid planning, the purchase or sale of businesses and corporations, help with contracts, and more. 

Estate Planning 101: 3 Things to Know When Making Gifts to Children (or Grandchildren)

Daytona Attorney Heidi Webb and family

Estate planning is a tricky thing, and there are a few things I encourage my clients to think about when they’re drafting their last will and testament. I’ve listed three important considerations that you should be aware of when you draft your will – and even as you reexamine it (which you really should do every few years). No matter who your estate planning attorney is, even is you write your will on a napkin, here are three things to remember when you’re setting up or reviewing your last will and testament:

1. Make sure everyone’s treated equally.

Estate planning–and primarily the lack thereof–can cause a lot of contention between family members. Who gets grandma’s diamond ring? How about the nice China? Will the siblings with children get more than the kids who decided to stay single and play live music at tiki bars for the rest of their lives? In estate planning, it’s really important that everything is equal for children or grandchildren left in the will. You don’t want to leave a wake of resentment, bickering, anger, and emotions when it comes time for your actual wake–know what I mean? Make sure you have your estate planning papers in order, but also make sure they will be perceived as fair by all your loved ones involved. 

2. Consider giving those “gifts” in your lifetime, rather than waiting until you’re gone.

A lot of people make estate planning all about death when in fact they could be making good use of their estate in this lifetime. College is expensive – instead of leaving your children or grandchildren thousands of dollars when they’re likely middle-aged or older (with their own money and their own children and estates to look after [or plan]), invest in their future and wellbeing with gifts like tuition funds and money for their deep passions or productive recreational activities. Hey, you know what? How about planning a family vacation if you have a big trust fund or personal nest egg just sitting there until death does you part. Make memories with your family now. Enjoy your money that you’ve worked hard for and take your family along to do the same. That’s much more meaningful then letting them enjoy your money after your death. And I’m sure they’d much rather have time with you and special memories (and a free vacation) then a bigger check when you pass away. 

 3. Don’t forget about long-term care.

You’re going to need help in your golden years. Therefore you’re going to need plenty of money in your golden years. It’s great to make gifts in this lifetime, but don’t forget the importance of caring for yourself and your own future as well. Medical care is expensive, and you want to be comfortable and secure when you’re older. It’s really important that no matter how healthy or young you are, no matter how much money you have (within reason), you should set a good chunk aside to prepare for the worst – or at least the inevitable. Nursing homes, physical therapy, assisted living, and hospice care should be part of your estate planning mindset. Your health and peace of mind is crucial as you encounter the many limitations and medical upsets that go along with being a senior citizen.

So, those are three basic things I would encourage all of my estate planning clients to consider and prepare for when writing out their will. Keep these things in mind and don’t forget to reexamine your last will and testament every few years to ensure that everything is set up to prevent family squabbles and the financial ills of not preparing for long-term care. 

About Heidi S. Webb, Attorney at Law: Heidi Webb is an estate planning and small business attorney located in Daytona Beach, Florida. See what clients are saying about Heidi, follow her on Facebook, and connect with her on Google+ or LinkedIn. Heidi’s AVVO profile is also available online, as well as many other lawyer referral sites.